BE YOU , BECAUSE EVERYONE ELSE IS TAKEN

Be you,everyone else is taken. This one step can be liberating.

We are obsessed with what others think of us. We want to be liked, famous and approved. We seek attention because that makes us feel important.

We can easily be put down with unkind words and picked up if appreciated.

In organisations there is a game , it is called “What will the boss think” and yes it’s important because the boss decides the future growth within the organisation or so we think.

We seek approval of our peers because it makes us feel important and we want to belong.

Social media feeds on the inherent human desire to be liked so we post and then look back to check likes and comments.

This wanting to be liked , approved , appreciated, creates a unseen pressure and ties down our freedom , freedom to be who we are .

Freedom comes from being authentic, confident in our own skin , not wanting to be like anyone , not being a copy.

And then we have the rebels, who also are trying to project an identity of being different, rebels . Yet there is the pressure of hold an identity that is not authentic.

What if you could just drop your wanting to be like someone else , anyone else or seeking approval.

There is a famous Hindi film song in India ‘Kuch to log kahenge , logon ka kam hai kehena‘ ( people will always say something, that is their job). And you can never please everyone.

What if you can ignore what others think , and you truly can , just try it now , drop the baggage of wanting approval , and see how it feels.

Do your stuff , rock your boat , be different, be you because you are made different.

Each one of us is unique, and there is no one else like us anywhere in the world. We have our own unique gifts .

What applies to individuals applies to organisations . There is a unique story of each organisation. ‘Why’ it exists. Find that why and live that why.

Carrying an image that is not you is stressful, being authentic is liberating. And when you are genuinely authentic it reflects and you stand out. Not because you want to be liked but because you are who you are , different.

I found being authentic truly liberating experience, I blog because I want to , I express what I want to , I cycle, I sing , I create because that is who I am , I love to create , build on new ideas , grow business, mentor individuals and business to play to potential . This makes me happy.

What will others think stops people from taking the first step , from living their dreams . And it is not worth it , no point with dying with your dream in your heart.

Be YOU because everyone else is taken.

Sanjay Mudnaney

#passionproject

MAKE PASSION YOUR WORK OF ART

When you transcend from surviving to thriving , from being safe to jumping off the cliff so you can fly , when you stretch your wings to take to the sky , when you look at your fear in the eye and walk close , when your work is your art , you are alive !

Pinky is a home maker , she took retirement from her job after 30 years of service to pursue her passion for healthy Vegan cooking . She personally had faced many health issues and going on a whole plant based and raw diet helped her heal , when she experienced personal transformation she wanted to share this with the world , she did this through her passion as a vegan chef ,what could be a better way then to teach a new healthy lifestyle to the world. Tribes are built when a leader experiences transformation and wishes to share good with the world.

Pink’y passion was not money but her desire for meaning in life after 30 years of a corporate career , she wanted to heal those who were suffering disease with whole plant based vegan and raw food lifestyle and she started conducting classes to teach her tribe members the way to live this lifestyle. One by one her tribe was getting healed , she was my first client at my digital payments startup for a online payment link , I was helping her with online bookings of her health classes. I found that Pinky experiences joy in sharing the way of a healthy life , she did this with no expectations. Every day she puts out a message on healthy living through a vegan lifestyle for the benefit of her tribe. As her tribe experienced the benefits through her sharing they began to pay her back by attending her workshops. Her passion is valuable to those who wish to heal their body from toxicity of unhealthy living.

Give your Passion

Give your passion to the world without any expectation , not as a strategy , not being clever , do it to experience the joy of making a difference . Puneet Rao is a fitness coach on Instagram he has been sharing his fitness journey and life with his tribe for many years now . During the lockdown he did this everyday as people were at home, he conducted live sessions on home workouts for the benefit of his tribe. Tribe leaders truly care for their tribe , they want to genuinely help and they do this without any expectations . They are out there , giving everyday , make a difference in the world with their passion.

Puneet later announced a batch for those who wanted to take up his deeper session for fitness for the period of lockdown over a thousand fans signed up for his daily live paid sessions.

Add Value , make it valuable

Dr Pramod Tripathi has been sharing his knowledge on reversing diabetes naturally without medicines through his YouTube channel , he spends a lot of time researching on the subject before he puts out anything . He thinks deeply of the problems diabetics face , the doubts they may have . His mission is educating diabetics with facts and helping them heal. His video on “Should Diabetics Fast” is a super hit because it is a grey area and a question many diabetics have he is helping them ease their pain and find freedom from diabetes. His tribe keeps on growing as the energy of his passion is infectious and adds value to his tribe.

Dr Pramod is on a mission to get one lakh diabetics free of medicines and insulin by 2022.

Everyday is an opportunity to spread joy

Those that succeed do so by giving , contributing adding value , you are in this world for a purpose , and your purpose is to make a difference with your unique gift , when you get up everyday with the joy to give your unique talent to the world , it responds back with love . The energy of giving comes back , multiplied.

Puneet Rao shares his fitness sessions daily on Instagram , he has been doing this for many years now and his tribe has grown. They now trust him and have become raving fans. Pinky shares health vegan recipes daily , Dr Pramod shares honest knowledge of diabetes.

You are not born to survive , you are born to thrive with your unique gifts and when you leave this world you would have left behind your unique fragrance .

The connected world helps us to share our gift , to contribute , to solve a problem , to make life a bit better for someone . Its a long haul , there are no short cuts , it takes time to build the tribe. It does not matter what one does , any job can become an opportunity to demonstrate your art as long as you bring passion to your work . The world needs artists not crowds.

Nurture your unique gift

The deeper you get in nurturing your unique gift , the greater the difference you can make , listen , learn , be thirsty for more. Learning never stops , I spend time on reading everyday, reflecting and nurturing my soul . How many hours of practice would a Serena Williams put in her game ? Steve Jobs learnt the art of connecting with his tribes with storytelling at Pixar , he was a master storyteller . There was magic when he would take stage to launch the next apple product , he perfected the art of story over the years.

A painter immerses in his art perfecting the brush strokes , a singer keeps at his practice to master his vocal chords , a musician spends time perfecting the notes , in every field those that succeed devote time to practice their art , get better and keep learning the new that is emerging.

Size of your tribe does not matter

Pinky has a few hundred tribe members , Dr Pramod has thousands , Beatles had millions , it is not the size that matters , what matters is are you adding value and do you feel good doing what you do.

You are an Artist

An artist is in love of his creation , he is obsessed with creating , when he does his art , time stops and Gods love flows through his work. Whatever maybe your work , be an artist , create art , fall in love with your creation , give your best art to the world , not for the likes and awards , not for what you will get in return but because you are born to share your best gift.

When you transcend from surviving to thriving , from being safe to jumping off the cliff so you can fly , when you stretch your wings to take to the sky , when you look at your fear in the eye and walk close , when your work is your art , you are alive !

#passionproject

Sanjay Mudnaney

Live your Passion .